
Before moving to the rights of spouses we should know that relationship between
husband and wife are considered to be one of the most beautiful relationship in Islam. When
two individuals come together and become husband wife so they form a small unit of society
and after that they give birth to children which increase the strength of society. This
relationship is considered to be on of the most pious one in eyes of Allah. It is very different from relation with neighbors, friends, relatives etc. It is much more extreme on the verge of
unity.
The first relation which came into existence was of husband in wife through Hazrat Adam
and Bibi Hawa. On multiple places in Quran rights of spouse are define so it clearly defines
the importance of the rights of spouse. On one place Quran says that And of His signs is that
He has created for you, from yourselves, spouses that you may gain peace through them
and He has set among you love and compassion. Surely in this there are signs for
thoughtful people.” On another occasion Quran tell us that Allah has made husband and wife
as each other garments. So, if we try to understand from this verse Allah has mention right of
spouse that each one you mean husband and are covers of each other, both of them should
stay close to protect each other share feelings and thoughts, to have peace when together.
Respect each other and when both of you are together you increase beauty of each other.
If we talk about the rights of spouse in Islam so there are proper guidelines and we can find
them through Quran and Sun-nah of Holy Prophet (P.B.U.H). Few basic rights are as follow:
Both husband and wife should behave in the most decent and nice with each other,
respect each other feeling thoughts. “And consort with them (your wives) in honor
and equity [ma‘ruf].”
They should work together to transform their home into paradise for each other.
Husband should help their wives in household works. Holy prophet (P.B.U.H) use to
help his wives in doing house hold works like he clean his home, clean his clothes etc
and asked His followers to do the same so that they can help their wives.
Each other should be loyal to each other, cheerful, trust worthy and polite to each
other so that environment can be peaceful and loving
Through one hadees we get to know that the most complete man in faith are those
have the best manners and good among you are those who are good with their wives.
Both of them should dressed up properly to attract each other
Men should protect his women from physical and mental harm. Share feelings with
each other so that their bond can be stronger.
Husband should be considered as the guardian, have the supervision.
Family affairs should be done after mutual consultation and agreement with
cooperation of Husband and wife
Husband should able to bring wealth to house so that expenses and needs can be
fulfilled.
Husband should be gentle, appreciate his wife and forgive her mistakes and don’t
become stubborn.
On one occasion it is mention that the jihad of a woman is taking good care of her
husband
Both of them should love each other unconditionally and full fill their needs.
Wife should accept husband’s supervision and give her ideas too but should accept
the decision of husband
Both of them should be loyal to each other.
So these are the major concept and guidelines of rights of spouse in Islam which are good
to keep the house hold in healthy manner and have a peaceful environment.





















